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Southfield Michigan US |
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About Me:
I'm a single black male, 31, 215, proud father, and professionally employed. This is what I'm looking for:
I need to feel emotionally secure with a woman. Meaning that I can share my feelings openly and honestly without her judging me, or
becoming defensive and projecting fears based on her past onto me. That also means that if I share something with her, that she'd at least ask/check things out before going postal on me. I would never expect anyone to accept any type of behavior, but to at least wait until I goof up, or understand the situation before trashing my feelings is a reasonable expectation.
I need a woman who will work hard with me--emphasis on with. I value a woman who understands that either you're part of the problem, or part of the solution and who understands that together, people can accomplish more than when they are alone. I need a woman who values UNITY, in all of its wonder. Doesn't mean that there won't be moments of failure, but on a consistent basis, honest effort and the capacity and will to put forth focused effort towards common goals.
I need someone who will COMMUNICATE with me. That means sharing thoughts, ideas, and feelings on a consistent basis. A woman who will attempt to share and discuss things more than once if necessary, because the goal/focus is to share the same vision, or be on the same page--in other words--UNDERSTANDING. Communication doesn't mean congruence or agreement--it means that each person's position is clearly stated. If they are the same, even better, or depending on the situation, possibly not. The important thing is "willingness to listen", "willingness to talk", along with openness to communication.
I need a woman who SHARES A COMMON VISION. By that I guess I mean that she would want a FAMILY, consistency, a relationship that allows them to chase the dreams that they envision, and equally important, a means to love and support beautiful children.
I need a woman who values ambition, and views it from the perspective that you impro
Who I Would Like To Meet:
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Ajamu
